Debra Alessandra
Children’s Book Author, Blogger, Educator, & Speaker

Throughout this site, you’ll find beautiful inspiring messages for children and adults alike.




About the Author
Meet Debra AlessandraI’ve been on this planet for a long time. It a challenge to write a little bit about me in such a short space.
On a practical note, you might like to know I spent 27 years in the company of children as a classroom teacher. I also led small groups for children of alcoholics, and provided counseling for in and out-patient clients with an emphasis on Family Dynamics.
I’ve been working a program of recovery for over three decades. Having a community of like-minded people has helped me grow and blossom into the person I am today. The fellowship of others has been a stabilizing influence in my life.
The receiving and giving inherent in recovery has been a life affirming experience.
By allowing the Spirit of the Universe to come in to my life and walking a spiritual path, I am giving back to others as a part of my personal growth and soul evolution.
I currently live in Tampa, Florida with my almost-human companion named Bella. I enjoy being near my amazing daughter, my dear son-in-law, and my precious grandson.
I continue to create more materials from my home in sunny South Florida.
After all these years I find it rather amazing that it all comes down to this profound sentence: In the words of Madeleine L’Engle,
“You have to write the book that wants to be written. And if the book will be too difficult for grown-ups, then you write it for children.”
So far, I have written four books. More are on the way. I strive to write inspiring messages for children that are simple, innocent, and truthful.
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Freedom and Responsibility
A Good Strategy
Releasing Concerns
Precious Gifts
Carry On
Unruly Children
Wisdom
Everyday Influences
Joy
Resilience
Be Trauma-Informed
Adverse Childhood Experiences
Stress
A Blank Phase
Night Night
But First Get Calm
Time-Out
Emotional Needs
Love
Renewal
Rhythm
Helping Children’s Anxiety
Choices
A Time of Waiting
A Declaration of Self-Esteem
Bewilderment
Challenging Conversations with Children
Talking about Recovery with Children
Children and Early Recovery
Suffering
Word of the Year
Christmas Cheer
Celestial Grace
Keep it Simple
Goodwill
What Kind of Gratitude?
This Thing Called Time
Getting Along
Uncertainty
Imagination
Joy
Our Collective Tipping Point
Chaos
Let’s Go on an Adventure
Difficult Conversations
A Healthier Love
A Piece of the Puzzle
A Time of Air
Choices
Being Right
A Sense of Order
Finding Solutions
Faulty Conclusions
Exploring Intelligence
Inclusivity
The Serenity Prayer
Struggles in Stories
Learning to Listen
Time for Reflection
A Tribute to Bella
Much Needed Changes
Eye Contact
Threshold Moments
Thought Diversity
Mother’s Day Musings
Easing Confusion
Now What?
Transition
Happy Memories
Rock Investigations
Pandemic Possibilities
Resets
Three Calm Down Tips
Enhancing Ourselves
Allowing Feelings
Children and Pets
Comfort
Spontaneity
Inner Knowing
Promoting Curiosity
Get on Their Level
Let Boys Cry
Lighten Your Load
Reflections on the Light
Holiness
The Sounds of Silence
Recovery Language
Helping Children of Alcoholics
Healing Patterns of Behavior
Changing Family Dynamics
The Mascot
The Lost Child
The Family Scapegoat
The Family Hero
Family Systems
Stay Calm
Anxiety in Children
Screen Time
Be Kind
Smoother Mornings
Faith
Quiet Time
Our Inner Critic: (Continued)
Exploring The Inner Critic
Consider Your Energy
Sing Alone Sing Together
The Value of Rest
Perfection?
The Wonder of You
Fathers & More
My Journal A Quiet Practice
The Magic of Roots and Stars
The Origins of 12 Steps 12 Stories
A New Beginning
The Nature of Change
With God All Things Are Possible
Denial
Hope and Faith in Recovery
Using Affirmations
Communication Blocks
Tradition 11 on the Internet
What Social Life?
A Grandparent’s Guide to Video Streaming
Every Grandparent’s Concern
The Power of the Grandfamily
Humility
Relapse Triggers in Recovery
Strength in Recovery
Surrender
6 Recovery Suggestions
The Benefits of Sober Living
Recovery Radio Interview
Raising Grandchildren
Handling Arguments
Tips for Parents in Recovery
Healing the Pain
Patterns of Behavior in Children of Alcoholics
Rebuilding Relationships with Children
Spending Time with Children
Staying Positive
Addicts and their Families: Radio Interview
Inpatient Treatment Benefits
Change Happens
The Use of Story: A Softer Approach to Healing
Sharing the Gift of Recovery with Children
Impeding the Cycle of Addiction in Families
Camels as Symbols of Sobriety
Reading Books about Recovery Together
Creating a Vision Board with Children
Creating a God Box: A 12 Step Recovery Activity
Talking to Children about the Recovery Process
Breaking the Silence
New Beginnings
The Power of Words
Some Roads are Longer than Others
Explaining Recovery to Children
Debra Alessandra is available for interviews, education, and speaking engagements
Debra Alessandra
Children’s Book Author, Blogger, Educator, & Speaker

Throughout this site, you’ll find beautiful inspiring messages for children and adults alike.




About the Author
Meet Debra AlessandraI’ve been on this planet for a long time. It a challenge to write a little bit about me in such a short space.
On a practical note, you might like to know I spent 27 years in the company of children as a classroom teacher. I also led small groups for children of alcoholics, and provided counseling for in and out-patient clients with an emphasis on Family Dynamics.
I’ve been working a program of recovery for over three decades. Having a community of like-minded people has helped me grow and blossom into the person I am today. The fellowship of others has been a stabilizing influence in my life.
The receiving and giving inherent in recovery has been a life affirming experience.
By allowing the Spirit of the Universe to come in to my life and walking a spiritual path, I am giving back to others as a part of my personal growth and soul evolution.
I currently live in Tampa, Florida with my almost-human companion named Bella. I enjoy being near my amazing daughter, my dear son-in-law, and my precious grandson.
I continue to create more materials from my home in sunny South Florida.
After all these years I find it rather amazing that it all comes down to this profound sentence: In the words of Madeleine L’Engle,
“You have to write the book that wants to be written. And if the book will be too difficult for grown-ups, then you write it for children.”
So far, I have written four books. More are on the way. I strive to write inspiring messages for children that are simple, innocent, and truthful.
Featured Books
Debra Alessandra’s inspiring messages for childrenStay in Touch
Don’t miss out on anything!
We hate SPAM and promise to keep your information private!
Latest Blogs & Articles
Information and Insight from Debra AlessandraHappy Halloween
Freedom and Responsibility
A Good Strategy
Releasing Concerns
Precious Gifts
Carry On
Unruly Children
Wisdom
Everyday Influences
Joy
Resilience
Be Trauma-Informed
Adverse Childhood Experiences
Stress
A Blank Phase
Night Night
But First Get Calm
Time-Out
Emotional Needs
Love
Renewal
Rhythm
Helping Children’s Anxiety
Choices
A Time of Waiting
A Declaration of Self-Esteem
Bewilderment
Challenging Conversations with Children
Talking about Recovery with Children
Children and Early Recovery
Suffering
Word of the Year
Christmas Cheer
Celestial Grace
Keep it Simple
Goodwill
What Kind of Gratitude?
This Thing Called Time
Getting Along
Uncertainty
Imagination
Joy
Our Collective Tipping Point
Chaos
Let’s Go on an Adventure
Difficult Conversations
A Healthier Love
A Piece of the Puzzle
A Time of Air
Choices
Being Right
A Sense of Order
Finding Solutions
Faulty Conclusions
Exploring Intelligence
Inclusivity
The Serenity Prayer
Struggles in Stories
Learning to Listen
Time for Reflection
A Tribute to Bella
Much Needed Changes
Eye Contact
Threshold Moments
Thought Diversity
Mother’s Day Musings
Easing Confusion
Now What?
Transition
Happy Memories
Rock Investigations
Pandemic Possibilities
Resets
Three Calm Down Tips
Enhancing Ourselves
Allowing Feelings
Children and Pets
Comfort
Spontaneity
Inner Knowing
Promoting Curiosity
Get on Their Level
Let Boys Cry
Lighten Your Load
Reflections on the Light
Holiness
The Sounds of Silence
Recovery Language
Helping Children of Alcoholics
Healing Patterns of Behavior
Changing Family Dynamics
The Mascot
The Lost Child
The Family Scapegoat
The Family Hero
Family Systems
Stay Calm
Anxiety in Children
Screen Time
Be Kind
Smoother Mornings
Faith
Quiet Time
Our Inner Critic: (Continued)
Exploring The Inner Critic
Consider Your Energy
Sing Alone Sing Together
The Value of Rest
Perfection?
The Wonder of You
Fathers & More
My Journal A Quiet Practice
The Magic of Roots and Stars
The Origins of 12 Steps 12 Stories
A New Beginning
The Nature of Change
With God All Things Are Possible
Denial
Hope and Faith in Recovery
Using Affirmations
Communication Blocks
Tradition 11 on the Internet
What Social Life?
A Grandparent’s Guide to Video Streaming
Every Grandparent’s Concern
The Power of the Grandfamily
Humility
Relapse Triggers in Recovery
Strength in Recovery
Surrender
6 Recovery Suggestions
The Benefits of Sober Living
Recovery Radio Interview
Raising Grandchildren
Handling Arguments
Tips for Parents in Recovery
Healing the Pain
Patterns of Behavior in Children of Alcoholics
Rebuilding Relationships with Children
Spending Time with Children
Staying Positive
Addicts and their Families: Radio Interview
Inpatient Treatment Benefits
Change Happens
The Use of Story: A Softer Approach to Healing
Sharing the Gift of Recovery with Children
Impeding the Cycle of Addiction in Families
Camels as Symbols of Sobriety
Reading Books about Recovery Together
Creating a Vision Board with Children
Creating a God Box: A 12 Step Recovery Activity
Talking to Children about the Recovery Process
Breaking the Silence
New Beginnings
The Power of Words
Some Roads are Longer than Others
Explaining Recovery to Children
Debra Alessandra is available for interviews, education, and speaking engagements
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